This is a group for lesbian monogamists-single or partnered! I hope to have discussions about the joys and sometimes the judgment we receive being monogamists.
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Latest Activity: Sep 18, 2011
Started by Robin Sneed Jul 22, 2011. 0 Replies 2 Likes
Hi everyone- I think this is a difficult question. I don't like leaping into sex, but I also don't want to put timelines on things. I am just starting to date now...after a few attempts...I wasn't…Continue
Started by Robin Sneed. Last reply by Robin Sneed Jun 24, 2011. 1 Reply 1 Like
In a world that celebrates multiple partners perhaps more than the devoted romance, how has being a monogamist brought joy to your life?
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Hi, Dianne! Yes, often being perhaps too willing to sacrifice oneself results in a lack of respect from the other person. I think confidence and a giving nature are important in a healthy relationship...giving more than one has is always a mistake...it is simply draining. Good to see you...thank you for the joining the group!
Robin
Comment by Dianne Schuch-Lindsey on July 30, 2011 at 8:33am I was momgomous in all my relationships. I thought that was how one was to be.
I just left a 14 year relationships, I was truly, madly, deeply in love. And as passionately dismissed.
I don't understand people turning to tohers when there is someone at home willing to do whatever it takes to make them happy, even if it mean sacrificing oneself.
And ther-in lies my problem.
But your column is a cooling breeze in this muggy horrible heat.
Thanks
Dianne Schuch Lindsey
Hi, Maggie! I've been on vacation (still am) and haven't been online for two weeks...that's a first for me in years...I'm glad you joined Truly, Madly, Deeply...I have lots to learn, too!
Robin
Comment by maggie on July 18, 2011 at 7:24am Hi all came to this forum to learn!!! will add more later.I find my writing skills(lack there of ) comes in sprints and now is not one of them!!! Had a wonderful afternoon with my grandaughter who introduced me to her girlfriend and we all had a great time.. I realized I have a lot to learn!!! STILL!!
Robin...thanks for starting this forum - I read you on WIT but have not added to it for a bit...but will soon as with this site.
I love it!
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