But your boyfriend had a hip replacement, so he's limited on mobility. Or your girlfriend sometimes has a back pain flare-up, and that good old missionary position will just aggravate it. Indeed, those Cosmopolitan sex positions you use to swing at back when you went to key parties no longer cut it with these old bones of yours.
Alas Zoomer Singletons, venturing into the "mating" territory need not be such an arduous challenge. If anything, slowing down that libido makes the most out of the foreplay, and allows you more time to explore what truly feels good with your partner. Flexibility and willingness are always key, but it does help to know a few sexual positions that are mindful of your years.
Below are three of our own recommendations:
#1 The "Spoon"
The spoon is incredibly romantic and intimate — perfect for that lazy Sunday morning. Similar to most "on top" positions, the spoon is a slow ride that simply involves partners on one side, facing the same direction.
The easiest way to go about it? Gentlemen, make sure you're facing your lady friend — so have her back to you — and hug and hold her as you penetrate. Ladies, you can make it easier for your man by pushing your tush towards him as he enters you (not to mention show him how to touch your "love-button").
#2 The Reverse Missionary
This is identical to that "good old American man-on-top-get-it-over-with-quick" (George Carlin's words, not our's), but this time around, the woman's on top. Perfect for inspiring a shy lady to take control, this position allows for deeper penetration for the woman and greater ejaculatory control for the man.
#3 Seated Rear Entry
Looking for something outside the bedroom? Grab a chair then! The man sits on the chair, while the lady places a knee on each side of the man's hips. It's a "seated fun" position that's deep and pleasurable for the both of you. The woman is able to control the motion, while the man can pleasure by caressing the breasts and upper body.
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